The third type of wedding I would like to talk about is a traditional Indian wedding. I love the Indian culture because it always look so beautiful and colorful. The following descriptions are of a traditional Hindu wedding.
A Hindu wedding is a very important event in their culture. The wedding consists of three main events in chronological order: Kanyadaan, Panigrahana, and Saptapadi.
Kanyadaan: Giving Away the Bride
According to Hindu's tradition, parents “giving away” the Bride as one of the noblest acts they will perform in their lifetime. This tradition is performed by the Bride's father. He does by placing the Bride's hand on the Groom's hand and have him promise not to fail the Bride in pursuing Dharma (moral and lawful life), Artha (wealth) and Kama (love).
Panigrahana: Expectations from Married Life
This traditions is practiced by having the Groom and Bride talk about their expectations and consents for married life. Bride requests the Groom's support for a healthy and prosperous family life. Groom requests for the Bride to work together with him to pursue a successful life. They end the cermemony by tying the Groom's scarf to the Bride's dress and promise each other to stay together for as long as they live.
Saptapadi: Taking the Marriage Vows with Seven Steps
This is the most important ceremony for a Hindu marriage. The couple walks together around a ceremonial fire seven steps while making promises to each other:
- We will provide for and support each other.
- We will develop mental, physical & spiritual strength.
- We will share the worldly possessions.
- We will acquire knowledge, happiness and peace.
- We will raise strong and virtuous children.
- We will enjoy the fruits of all seasons.
- We will always remain friends and cherish each other.
The above description is an overview of common practices in India for a Hindu wedding. There are of course different variations at every wedding.
Please feel free to ask questions or comment on my post!
Thank you,
Khanh
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